Blog posts by Post Traumatic Growth Specialist, Sinta Ebersohn, about cultivating family resilience through all adversities and traumatic experiences.
The Misconception of Gender Based Violence: A Call for Inclusivity and Balance The term Gender Based Violence (GBV) has become synonymous with discussions around violence, particularly domestic violence. However, the concept often focuses primarily on the plight of women, overshadowing the equally critical experiences of male victims and the nuanced dynamics of violence. The term […]
Violence is a Human Issue, not a Gendered one. Read More »
In today’s digital world, protecting our personal and business data is crucial, yet many individuals and organisations overlook essential steps, leaving themselves vulnerable to data breaches, identity theft, financial loss and emotional stress. In the face of escalating cyber threats, there’s no room for shortcuts – data security is as essential as locking your front
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A Call to Action for Healing and Growth October is recognised as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to raise consciousness about a pervasive issue affecting individuals and families worldwide. Domestic violence (DV) transcends geographical, cultural and socio-economic boundaries, leaving emotional, psychological and physical scars on its victims. In this post, I’ll explore the various
Mental Health Awareness Day, observed annually on October 10th, serves as a global reminder of the importance of mental well-being. In a world where stress, anxiety and mental health challenges are on the rise, this day urges us to break the stigma, encourage open conversations and promote strategies for better mental health. This blog post
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A Path Toward Global Peace, Resilience and the Complex Reality of Violence “Non-violence is the greatest force at the disposal of mankind. It is mightier than the mightiest weapon of destruction devised by the ingenuity of man.” – Mahatma Gandhi On October 2nd, the world comes together to observe the International Day of Non-Violence, honouring
On International Sign Language Day (23 September), we celebrate a powerful form of communication that bridges the gap between the hearing and deaf communities. Sign language is not just a tool for communication; it’s a symbol of inclusion, equality and human connection. To understand the significance of sign language, let’s delve into its history, examine
Losing a loved one to suicide is an unimaginable grief. The emotional aftermath can feel overwhelming, leaving family and friends grappling with profound sadness, guilt, confusion and even anger. This type of loss, often referred to as “complicated grief,” is distinct because it comes with questions that might never be answered. For those left behind,
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Understanding, Preventing and Building Resilience Suicide is one of the most pressing global health challenges, with over 700,000 people losing their lives to it every year. Yet, it remains shrouded in stigma, misunderstanding and silence. To address this, the World Suicide Prevention Day theme for 2024-2026 is “Changing the Narrative on Suicide,” urging us all
On August 30th, the world observes International Day of the Disappeared, a day to remember those who have vanished without a trace, leaving their loved ones in a state of enduring anguish. Disappearances, whether due to conflict, abduction or other mysterious circumstances, create a unique kind of suffering – an unresolved grief that lingers indefinitely.
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Understanding Trauma and Cultivating Resilience Terrorism has scarred the world, leaving a lasting impact on individuals, communities and entire cultures. Over the past century, acts of terrorism have not only claimed lives but also inflicted deep emotional, psychological and social wounds. The trauma caused by terrorism can be debilitating, with effects that can linger for
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First-born children have held a unique and significant place in families and societies throughout history. This blog post explores various perspectives on first-born children, examining their roles, responsibilities, advantages, disadvantages and common challenges. By understanding these aspects, we can better support first-born children and help them thrive. Ancient Civilizations In many ancient civilisations, first-born children,
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The Wellness Approach is an Essential Complement to the Conventional Biomedical Model In recent years, chronic lifestyle diseases have become a significant public health concern, driven by modern societal pressures, poor lifestyle choices and environmental factors. The conventional biomedical model, focused primarily on diagnosing and treating diseases, is indispensable. However, to tackle the root causes
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World Wellbeing Week is an opportunity to reflect on the importance of fostering wellbeing in every aspect of our lives. As leaders, employers and parents, our roles are crucial in creating environments where individuals can thrive. This blog post explores how the principles of wellbeing in the workplace can be seamlessly integrated into family life,
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Empowering the Next Generation In today’s rapidly evolving world, our youth need more than just academic knowledge to thrive. The complexities of the digital age, the interconnectedness of global societies and the demands of future careers require a diverse set of life skills. These essential life skills are crucial for personal growth, responsible citizenship and
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Ensuring Resilience and Growth Through Safe Food Practices In our interconnected world, food safety is a fundamental pillar of public health, socio-economic development and well-being. June 7th marks World Food Safety Day, a time to reflect on the importance of safe food practices and their impact on our lives. This day, established by the United
A Pathway to Post Traumatic Growth and Resilience Conflict is an inevitable part of life, woven into the fabric of our daily interactions, relationships and personal experiences. Whether arising from interpersonal disagreements, societal challenges or internal struggles, conflict can feel overwhelming and destructive. However, it also holds the potential to be a powerful catalyst for
Voting is one of the most powerful acts of civic engagement we can participate in. It is a cornerstone of democracy, giving us the chance to influence how our society functions and develops. However, the process can be overwhelming, especially with the barrage of information and opinions that circulate during election seasons. My aim is
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Step-parenting, the role of an individual who enters into a family where at least one parent has children from a previous relationship, is a complex and multi-faceted journey. Rooted in the evolution of family structures and dynamics, step-parenting carries both challenges and opportunities for growth, impacting individuals and families in profound ways in our modern
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In our journey through life, we often encounter challenges that test our resilience and emotional strength. While Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are widely recognised as significant stressors, there are other life events that can deeply impact us. Understanding and acknowledging these stressors is the first step towards overcoming them and fostering post-traumatic growth. Let’s delve
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In our journey towards holistic wellness, understanding and nurturing each facet of our lives is crucial. The Wellness Wheel, a concept embraced by wellness counsellors, coaches and practitioners, serves as a comprehensive framework to guide us in this endeavour. Each spoke of the wheel represents a different aspect of our well-being and mastering the skills
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How to Achieve Post Traumatic Growth and Resilience Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are pivotal events that occur during childhood and have lasting impacts on an individual’s mental, physical and emotional well-being. Coined by Dr. Vincent Felitti and Dr. Robert Anda in the 1990s, ACEs encompass various forms of abuse, neglect and household dysfunction experienced before
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Parental Alienation refers to a disturbing phenomenon where one parent systematically manipulates a child to reject or fear the other parent, often during or after a divorce or separation. From a legal standpoint, it involves the intentional undermining of the child’s relationship with the targeted parent through various means, including denigration, limiting contact and false
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Success is a concept deeply ingrained in human society, often associated with wealth, power and status. However, true success transcends materialistic measures and encompasses a multifaceted approach to personal fulfilment and contribution to society. In the context of parenthood, especially within the age group of 40 to 50 years, the definition of success takes on
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In the intricate tapestry of family structures, both nuclear and extended families offer unique advantages and challenges. While nuclear families provide autonomy and independence, they may also face isolation and limited support systems, potentially leading to trauma for family members. On the other hand, extended families offer built-in support networks and intergenerational wisdom, but they
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From time to time I make short videos that are usually in response to common questions I receive from clients. They are posted on my Youtube channel and other social media platforms, so if you follow me or subscribe there, you’ll get notified whenever a new video is uploaded. Here are a few of the
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As we step into the canvas of a new year, let’s share a heartfelt conversation about the subtle art of intentional growth. I want to unravel the diverse ways individuals embark on this transformative journey. Consider the age-old tradition of making ‘New Year’s Resolutions’ – those promises we whisper to the universe in the quiet
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In our fast-paced world, it’s all too easy for families to become caught up in the whirlwind of daily life. But what if I told you that one of the most powerful tools to cultivate resilience, strengthen family bonds and foster self-awareness is right at your fingertips? Introducing the Get Up and Grow Accelerator membership,
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Breaking Free from Parental Fatigue: Discover the Path to Rejuvenation Parenting is a rewarding journey, but it’s also one of the most demanding roles in life. The constant juggling act of raising children, managing household responsibilities, and often balancing a career can take a toll on even the most resilient parents. Go to the Workshops
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What are the main Characteristics of a Successful and Holistically Fulfilled Individual? Below is a list of characteristics that are generally regarded as a benchmark of success and fulfilment for any adult individual. I’ve asked ChatGPT to arrange them in an order of importance from 1 to 22. Please read through this list and help
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In a world predominantly designed for the right-handed, left-handed individuals have embarked on a unique journey filled with challenges and triumphs. Across various cultures and eras, the perception of left-handedness has shaped early childhood development, education and mental health. In this exploration, I’ll delve into the world history of left-handedness, discovering how it impacted individuals
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We commemorate International Women’s Day and International Day of Indigenous Peoples on 9 August. It’s a poignant time to honour the remarkable stories of indigenous women from diverse corners of the globe. Some have left an indelible mark on history. They defied norms and emerged as a symbol of strength and leadership. It reminds us
Resilience Stories of Indigenous Women Read More »
As a passionate breastfeeding mother and campaigner, I am thrilled to share with you the profound impact on nurturing resilience in children and adults alike. Breastfeeding is not just about providing essential nutrients. It is a powerful catalyst for fostering physical, emotional, mental and spiritual resilience that equip our children with the tools they need
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Have you ever felt so wronged or injured that you wish you could get back at that person or give them some of their own medicine just so that they can feel how awful you are feeling and what their behaviour is doing to you? Retaliation is a human response that involves responding to perceived
Nurturing Your Well-Being In our fast-paced world it’s easy to overlook the importance of mental health. However, taking care of our minds is just as vital as caring for our physical well-being. Let’s look into the significance of mental health and explore some common mental health challenges people face. Additionally, I’ll provide valuable insights into
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Drowning incidents can have devastating consequences, not only physically but also mentally. When safety measures and precautions are not adhered to, individuals and families may be confronted with the harrowing aftermath of traumatic experiences. Let’s explore five real-life examples of drowning incidents and the profound impact they had on both the victims and their immediate
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The Mental Health Implications of Neglecting Farm Safety: Unveiling the Traumatic Consequences Farm safety isn’t just about physical well-being. It also significantly impacts our mental health. Failing to adhere to essential safety measures on farms can lead to traumatic incidents that leave lasting emotional scars on individuals and their families. Please scroll down for a
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Generational trauma can have a profound and long-lasting impact on individuals, families and entire societies. Understanding how the different kinds of trauma can impact individuals and communities across time and space can be useful in developing effective strategies for healing and prevention. There are many different types of generational trauma that can be passed down
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Divorce is a significant traumatic event that brings so many changes to your family’s life that they are often overwhelming and seem impossible to cope with. It helps to take a step back and see the big picture so that you can be better prepared. Here are some of the most common changes that can
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The Family Contribution Calculator provides an accurate measurement of the daily contributions of each parent (partner) to their own well-being and that of their children – in other words, how they both meet the needs of every family member and contribute to a healthy, happy family. This is a valuable tool to cultivate resilience in your family.
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History provides the Big Picture History shows that we are part of a much larger narrative than just our own subjective stories. It connects us to our families, communities, nations and the world as a whole and gives us a huge sense of belonging. Learning and understanding history, creates wise and compassionate family members &
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Family is after all, the most important thing in this world and we’ll stop at nothing to protect them. During trying times, apart from striving to be compassionate by offering a shoulder to cry on, a sounding board or simply quiet companionship to our loved ones… Offer a good, regular dose of the single most
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Being so passionate about cultivating resilience while facing adversity, I design printable products to support and inspire abundant family life. They are all available on Etsy at GetUpandGrowPress.
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This image might be familiar to you or not, but I’m posting it here as it is something we all need to examine when facing adversity. Maslow’s hierarchy is based on the premise that all human beings have an inborn desire to be self-actualised, be all they can be, be the best version of themselves
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In my years of dealing with family relations as a mentor, I’ve compiled a list of qualities and values that are crucial for family well-being. This is a work in progress so you can expect updates. Respect: Members of successful families have respectful relationships and are civil toward each other at all times. They don’t
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