Blog posts by Post Traumatic Growth Specialist, Sinta Ebersohn, about cultivating emotional resilience through all adversities and traumatic experiences.
Why So Many Legal Practitioners Become Rude, Bombastic, Disrespectful and Self Important Human civilisation has always appointed certain people to interpret its rules, but across cultures one finds a recurring pattern. Many legal practitioners behave as though the rest of the human race is made of lesser clay. Lawyers, advocates, attorneys, magistrates and judges often […]
When a Child’s Anger Is Not “Bad Behaviour” There is a particular kind of pain a child carries silently. It is the pain of being caught between two parents during a high-conflict divorce and worse, being coached, manipulated or emotionally coerced to reject one of the people they love most in the world. This process
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There are some Christmas traditions that fade quietly with time and then there are those rare few that feel like they’ve been waiting for us. This hand-crafted wooden Advent Calendar, designed by Sinta Ebersohn, belongs to the latter. It is not a trinket, nor a gimmick, nor another “buy it and forget it” festive accessory.
A Hand-Made Advent Treasure That Brings Your Family Back to the Table Read More »
When One Parent’s Rights Are Erased: What the UK Presumption Repeal Means for Children, Families and Justice Imagine a house where one of the two pillars is quietly removed. The roof sags slightly, the walls strain and eventually cracks begin to appear. In family law the pillar is often the presence of both parents in
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On 9 September, the world observes International Falsely Accused Day. A day that sounds almost surreal, until one pauses to realise how many lives have been irreparably scarred by an untruth dressed as evidence. A false accusation is not merely a misplaced word or a misunderstanding; it is a calculated claim that wounds reputations, severs
False Accusations: When Truth Becomes the First Casualty of Conflict Read More »
Every year on April 2nd, the world comes together to observe Autism Awareness Day, a crucial opportunity to celebrate neurodiversity, dispel harmful myths and advocate for inclusion and understanding. For many families, educators and individuals on the autism spectrum, this day is more than just a symbolic gesture – it is a reminder of the
Autism: Embracing Neurodiversity with Compassion Read More »
Why a Waste-Free Future Matters More Than Ever Waste is any material, substance or byproduct discarded after primary use. It includes food scraps, plastic packaging, electronic waste and even wasted time and energy. Every year, billions of tons of waste are generated worldwide, much of which ends up polluting our environment, harming wildlife and contributing
As we mark 30 years of democracy, South Africa’s journey in recognising, respecting and protecting human rights is one of both progress and challenge. Since 1994, we have made significant strides in establishing equality, freedom and dignity as fundamental rights for all citizens. Yet, as we reflect on our history, it is crucial to ask:
Human Rights Day: Upholding Dignity and Fostering Resilience Read More »
Happiness is one of the most sought-after yet misunderstood human experiences. Across cultures and civilizations, the definition of happiness varies, yet its pursuit remains universal. From the concept of “Eudaimonia” in Ancient Greece, which emphasises a life of virtue and purpose, to the Danish idea of “Hygge,” which centres on coziness and contentment, happiness is
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The Truth About Obesity and Why It’s a Global Crisis We Must Tackle Now Obesity is not merely a matter of appearance; it is a serious medical condition that threatens the health, well-being and longevity of millions worldwide. Defined by an excessive accumulation of body fat that increases the risk of various diseases, obesity has
Every year on February 21st, the world observes International Mother Language Day – a day dedicated to celebrating linguistic diversity and raising awareness of the importance of preserving mother tongues. Language is more than just a means of communication; it is a cultural identity, a carrier of history and a foundation for cognitive and emotional
Mother Language: Celebrating the Power of Native Tongues Read More »
It’s What You Do With It That Matters Grief isn’t just about losing someone to death. It’s about losing anything that held deep meaning in your life. The end of a relationship, the loss of a dream, a betrayal you never saw coming – these are all forms of loss that leave wounds just as
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Epilepsy is a neurological disorder characterised by recurrent, unprovoked seizures resulting from abnormal electrical activity in the brain. These seizures can manifest in various forms, from brief lapses in attention to prolonged convulsions. Globally, epilepsy affects over 70 million people, making it one of the most common neurological conditions. The perception and treatment of epilepsy
If you are reading this and facing cancer, I want you to know that you are not alone. I have been in your shoes. I was diagnosed with cancer, endured the uncertainty, the treatments, the exhaustion and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with it. Now, six years in remission, I can tell you that while
Cancer – A Message of Strength and Hope Read More »
Pregnancy can be a life-altering event, and when it is unplanned or unwanted, the challenges multiply exponentially. While these terms are often used interchangeably, they represent distinct experiences that shape the decisions, emotions, and consequences faced by both parents and the child. Understanding the difference is essential in providing compassionate support and guidance. The Difference
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January 24 marks the International Day of Education, a global acknowledgment of the critical role education plays in fostering peace, development and human potential. This day serves as a reminder of the transformative power of learning, while also prompting us to critically evaluate the scope and boundaries of educational institutions. Education encompasses far more than
Education: Focusing on Academic Excellence and Respecting Individual Autonomy Read More »
“Slavery is not an issue of the past. It’s an issue of today.” – Kailash Satyarthi January marks International Human Trafficking Month, and 30 July is World Day Against Trafficking in Humans – a time to shine a light on one of the darkest corners of our global society. Human trafficking, often referred to as
Human rights are the inherent entitlements that every person possesses simply by virtue of being human. They transcend race, gender, nationality and socio-economic status, forming the cornerstone of dignity, freedom, equality and justice in society. On International Human Rights Day, observed annually on December 10, we are reminded of the universal need to protect and
Commemorating International Day of Persons with Disabilities (3 December) Living with a disability can be one of life’s greatest challenges, but it can also be a journey of strength, transformation and discovery. Each year, on 3 December, the International Day of Persons with Disabilities serves as a reminder to celebrate the resilience and contributions of
Living with a Disability Read More »
The Misconception of Gender Based Violence: A Call for Inclusivity and Balance The term Gender Based Violence (GBV) has become synonymous with discussions around violence, particularly domestic violence. However, the concept often focuses primarily on the plight of women, overshadowing the equally critical experiences of male victims and the nuanced dynamics of violence. The term
Violence is a Human Issue, not a Gendered one. Read More »
World Diabetes Day, observed annually on November 14th, serves as a global platform to raise awareness about diabetes, its prevention and effective management. Established by the International Diabetes Federation (IDF) and the World Health Organization (WHO) in 1991, this day commemorates the birth anniversary of Sir Frederick Banting, who co-discovered insulin with Dr Charles Best
Living with Diabetes Read More »
October marks Eye Care Awareness Month, a time to reflect on the importance of vision, raise awareness of eye health and address the challenges individuals face when losing their eyesight. As a resilience practitioner and post-traumatic growth specialist, I’ve had the privilege of guiding individuals through some of life’s most difficult transitions. One of these
Eye Care, Vision Loss and How to Protect Our Sight Read More »
A Call to Action for Healing and Growth October is recognised as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to raise consciousness about a pervasive issue affecting individuals and families worldwide. Domestic violence (DV) transcends geographical, cultural and socio-economic boundaries, leaving emotional, psychological and physical scars on its victims. In this post, I’ll explore the various
On International Sign Language Day (23 September), we celebrate a powerful form of communication that bridges the gap between the hearing and deaf communities. Sign language is not just a tool for communication; it’s a symbol of inclusion, equality and human connection. To understand the significance of sign language, let’s delve into its history, examine
World Wellbeing Week is an opportunity to reflect on the importance of fostering wellbeing in every aspect of our lives. As leaders, employers and parents, our roles are crucial in creating environments where individuals can thrive. This blog post explores how the principles of wellbeing in the workplace can be seamlessly integrated into family life,
Fostering Wellbeing in the Workplace and at Home Read More »
Empowering the Next Generation In today’s rapidly evolving world, our youth need more than just academic knowledge to thrive. The complexities of the digital age, the interconnectedness of global societies and the demands of future careers require a diverse set of life skills. These essential life skills are crucial for personal growth, responsible citizenship and
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As a passionate breastfeeding mother and campaigner, I am thrilled to share with you the profound impact on nurturing resilience in children and adults alike. Breastfeeding is not just about providing essential nutrients. It is a powerful catalyst for fostering physical, emotional, mental and spiritual resilience that equip our children with the tools they need
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The True Essence of Friendship Let’s delve into the beautiful world of friendship and explore its true meaning and the vital qualities that make it a cherished and enduring connection. Friendship, like a delicate flower, blooms with time and care. It is a profound connection that goes beyond casual acquaintanceship. True friends become an indispensable
How to Nurture Resilient Bonds Read More »
Drowning incidents can have devastating consequences, not only physically but also mentally. When safety measures and precautions are not adhered to, individuals and families may be confronted with the harrowing aftermath of traumatic experiences. Let’s explore five real-life examples of drowning incidents and the profound impact they had on both the victims and their immediate
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“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.” – Elbert Hubbard The qualities of a best friend can vary depending on personal preferences and individual relationships, but there are several common qualities that are often associated with strong friendships. Here are some key qualities of a best friend: 1. Trustworthy:
Betrayal by Your Best Friend Read More »
Sometimes, emotional abuse can be so subtle that we don’t even realise we’re being emotionally and mentally abused by someone’s words or actions. Even though there are no visible bruises, the damage should never be underestimated. How can it be abuse if it is so subtle? This kind of conduct systematically undermines your dignity and
25 Signs of Emotional Abuse Read More »
Silent Treatment is emotional abuse and stonewalling is passive-aggressive. Period. There are times when we go silent for valid reasons, like when we want to avoid saying something that we might regret afterward or when we need time to think about the situation, gain some perspective and formulate a good response. Other times we might
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