It’s What You Do With It That Matters
Grief isn’t just about losing someone to death. It’s about losing anything that held deep meaning in your life. The end of a relationship, the loss of a dream, a betrayal you never saw coming – these are all forms of loss that leave wounds just as real and painful as any physical loss.
But here’s the question: Have you given yourself permission to grieve?
Most people push their grief aside, hoping time will ease the pain. But grief doesn’t work that way. Unprocessed grief lingers in the background of your life, affecting your relationships, your decisions and your ability to move forward.
If you’re struggling with loss – of any kind – it’s time to honour your grief and turn it into growth.
Have You Acknowledged Your Loss?
You may not have realised just how much you’ve lost and how deeply it has affected you. Take a moment to reflect on these questions:
Death of a Loved One
✔ Have you allowed yourself to grieve the absence of their physical presence?
✔ Have you mourned the future you imagined with them?
✔ Have you processed the pain of the milestones and special moments they won’t be there to share?
Illness or Disease
✔ Have you grieved the loss of your health and the abilities you once had?
✔ Have you acknowledged the fear and uncertainty that now fills your life?
✔ Have you let yourself mourn the plans, events and opportunities you’ve had to miss?
Loss of a Job or Business
✔ Have you processed the loss of your livelihood and financial security?
✔ Have you grieved the daily purpose and mission that used to drive you?
✔ Have you come to terms with the stability and independence you once had?
Breakup or Divorce
✔ Have you grieved the loss of the relationship and future you were building?
✔ Have you mourned the loss of the person you once considered your soulmate?
✔ Have you acknowledged the pain of losing your sense of family and belonging?
Infidelity or Betrayal
✔ Have you grieved the loss of a trusted and loyal partner?
✔ Have you processed the deep loss of emotional safety and security?
✔ Have you allowed yourself to mourn the loss of trust in yourself and your judgment?
Parental Alienation
✔ Have you grieved the loss of your child’s presence in your daily life?
✔ Have you mourned the milestones and celebrations you’re missing out on?
✔ Have you acknowledged the pain of losing the privilege of being a present, involved parent?
If any of these losses resonate with you, you are carrying grief – whether you realise it or not.
And you deserve to heal.
Grief Won’t Just Go Away – But It Can Be Transformed
Time alone doesn’t heal grief. Healing requires action, intention and the willingness to face your loss with honesty and compassion.
This is exactly why I created From Grief to Growth – an online training designed to help you:
✔ Honour and acknowledge your pain in a safe and supportive space
✔ Understand why you feel stuck and what’s holding you back
✔ Shift your perspective in a way that brings relief and clarity
✔ Identify tangible steps you can take to heal and move forward
💙 This training is for YOU if you’re ready to stop carrying your grief alone and finally start the journey toward wholeness.
📅 Date: Wednesday, 26 February
⏰ Time: 11:00 – 13:00 (SAST)
💰 Investment in yourself: $19
💡 Healing starts with a choice. Will you choose to carry your grief for another day, or will you take the first step toward peace?